TITLE:
Learning How to Find a Mate: Self-Directed learning and On-Line Dating
AUTHORS:
Donald N. Roberson, Jr.
KEYWORDS:
Self-Directed Learning, Widowhood, Internet, Internet Dating
JOURNAL NAME:
Creative Education,
Vol.16 No.11,
November
14,
2025
ABSTRACT: In this aging population, there is also a growing number of people living alone. Due to various reasons such as divorce, death, or separation, some of these folks may want to find another partner. Someone may be learning how to date again or join another family after many years of marriage to the same person. Further, the notion of internet dating has become easier and more comfortable than traditional ways of meeting a new partner, especially in remote areas. The purpose of this research is to understand how one older woman learned how to find a new husband. Research questions included what was the process, what were the setbacks, and what was the result. Because of the internet and its accompanying social connections, there are multiple ways for someone to find a new partner or a new friend if there is an interest. Loneliness can often result in depression and may hasten some of the senescence of aging; therefore, it is in the interest of public health to address this issue. This research found that one woman who was motivated, learned what was necessary to find the person she was looking for. We conclude that because of the connectivity of the internet, if someone wants to be with another person, they can learn how to find them as a result of personal learning and on-line dating.