The help-relationship in Chinese society has undergone social changes under the different historical backgrounds of traditional society and modern society. The family-based help-relationship in traditional society has also become more system-oriented under the tide of modernization. On the one hand, the main body of the system emphasizes the six-element development model led by the state. The institutional development path emphasizes the urban-rural integration and informatization. The rules of system operation emphasize the values of fairness and justice.